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How Can I Get my Child to be Accountable?

Admit it, you have acted irresponsible from time to time.  It's okay, IF you understand that accountability isn't always an easy path, but it is always necessary to bu...

How Can I Correct my Child's Bad Behavior?

You can yell all you want, but one thing will help your child make a change.  It's called, "accountability".  That one word helps a child build character and self-este...

How Can I Control my Angry Words?

What is it called?  Foot in Mouth, speaking before thinking?  Any way you wrap it, angry words can get you into a world of trouble.  If counting to 10 doesn't work, tr...

How Can I Fix My Mistakes?

Sure, you can sidestep a mistake, but you will most likely make that mistake over and over.  Accountability is a tough pill to take.  But unless you take accountabilit...

How Can I Stop Making Excuses?

Excuses, the first line of defense for failure.  Instead of opening your mouth, spend time with God and let Him chart a path that brings you to a better place.  The tr...

What if I Fail?

Not if, but when.  We all experience failure in life, sometimes more than just once.  We might not be able to see a reason to get back up, but God does.  Don't rely on...

How Can I Stop Blaming Others?

Acccountability is tough.  You have to look in the mirror and accept what you see.  Being accountable is the pathway to integrity and healing.  Not an easy task, but a...

How Can I Be More Mature?

The Apostle Paul said, when I was a child, I talked like a child.  When I became a man, I put childlsh ways behind me.  Okay, so you're still that child inside.  Probl...

How Can I Get an Apology From Someone?

Broken relationships are tough.  What's even tougher is getting the other person to accept responsibility (partial or full) for what happened.  God washes us clean wit...

Can God Help Fix My Marriage?

Yeah, the honeymoon is over, now comes the reality of life. One word, comprimise, will help give birth to that lasting bond you pledged to each other on day one.  Rath...

How Can I Get Rid of Hatred?

Hatred is powerful and it can and will destroy you and others in your path.  Hatred is darkness and destruction.  God is forgivness and healing.  If that's where you'r...

How Does Divorce Affect Children?

Yeah, your kids are suffering more than you, more than you know.  They are innocent victims of your conflict, sometimes used as tools against the other parent.  Do not...

Are Children Supposed to Grieve?

Kids are many times, neglected when conflict comes their way.  A divorce or family situation that is living chaos.  Kids experience the same grief as adults.  If that'...

How Can I Let Go of a Grudge?

You can't make an apology happen by demanding it.  You should never suppress your feelings.  Even when you're the victim, approach the issue as a peacemaker, not the a...

Can God Heal Me?

The short answer is yes, every time.  The way to healing is by YOU being part of the process.  It's not the wave of aa magic wand, but more of a collaboration with God...

How Can I Fix a Broken Relationship?

So, how is your attitude right now?  If it's fighting words, those words will only destroy any opportunity to repair the relationship.  Accept the fact that you are pa...

How Can I Make my Voice be Heard?

Truth, tempered with compassion give both sides a chance to come closer together in a dispute solution.  Stop talking and start listening.  God will give you the words...

How Can I be a Better Listener?

How do you block communication?  Body language, silence, agressive responses.  Mutual understanding is never easy, but always necessary in any relationship.

How Can I Stop Judging Others?

The blame game.  We all play it at times.  God can help us get out of that rut.  Listen and learn.

How Can I Accept The Fact That I am Wrong?

Okay, things have to change, and that means YOU.  It's a tough place to go, but to heal and move forward, you must do that first.

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