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How Do I Overcome Laziness?

Think about the things you do on a regular basis.  Include the good stuff and the not so good stuff.  The Bible says " if a man is lazy, his rafters sag, and if his ha...

Why Can't I Overcome Prejudice?

W.C. Fields was quoted as saying, "I am free of all prejudice.  I hate everyone equally."  Have you considered how you learned prejudice?  Beyond that, have you consid...

What Is Prejudice?

There are good habits and bad habits.  One of the most destructive habits humans acquire, is being prejudice.  That and other harmful habits can be destructive to the ...

Are Habits Necessary?

Sow a habit, reap a character.  Sow a character, reap a destiny.  Habits are necessary and when they align with what God has in store for our lives, those good habits ...

How Can I Overcome a Bad Habit?

Habits are part of our life.  Second nature for everyone.  Breaking those habits that are harmful can be tough.  God can help move those bad habits, to good habits tha...

How Can I Stop Habitual Lying?

Being truthful.  For most, it's part of who we are.  For others, it's simply not possible, because they have built a path so deep and dark that lying becomes a perceiv...

What Gives Addictions Power?

The power to break bad habits comes from permitting Jesus Christ to create in you, a new way of thinking and has control over the old thought patterns.  You DO have th...

What Gives Habits Power?

Have you be against the cutting edge of a powerful, embarrassing habit that is hard to break?  Habit start out as cobwebs and turn into shackles.  God has the power to...

How Do Habits Seize Control?

A bad habit can be what causes pain and suffering.  It might not be alcohol, tobacco, or food.  The power of a habit, either good or bad, will shape who we are and det...

Can a Bad Habit Be Conquered?

What makes bad habits hard to break is they are often welcomes, enjoyed and even believed to be beneficial.  Bad habits have power over you.  God has the power to help...

How Can I Nurture Someone?

Nurturing, not an easy task.  It provides reassurance in situations that appear hopeless.  It rises above anger and revenge.  Do you have a tough time nurturing someon...

Does Criticism and Fault-Finding Work?

Criticism and fault-finding is an unproductive method of changing someone's behavior.  It is also hurtful and emotionally damaging.  Is that how you approach someone? ...

Is Nurturing a Necessity?

Compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.  These are all attributes of nurturing.  With these, nurturing is possible.  

How is Compassion Related to Forgiveness?

When God for gives us he completely forgets our sins.  Sometimes we have a tough time following his lead.  Is that hard for you, as well?

What Does Forgiveness Include?

Words verbalize what's in the heart.  Beyond that, words demonstrate sincerity.  True forgiveness leads to behaviors that builds a person up.  Can you do that?

Why Should I Forgive?

So here's the deal.  God does not hold grudges.  And neither should you.  Follow his example by forgiving others.  You will not regret it.

What Makes an Apology Sincere?

It's not about you.  It's about the other person.  If you are reluctant to be humble, remember that Jesus humbled himself and died on the cross just for you.  So, can ...

Why Should I Apologize?

Can you do it?  Can you humble yourself with humility?  An apology restores fellowship and peace to a relationship.  Without an apology, reconciliation will never happ...

How Can I Apologize?

An apology is necessary because it opens the door to forgiveness.  It is also the beginning of reclaiming your self-respect.  Holding onto hurt does nothing good, and ...

How Can I Apologize for Wrong and Hurtful Behavior?

Not an easy task, but it becomes easier when you turn to the Holy Spirit for guidance.  Speak the truth and speak it with humility.  Your actions will be received and ...

How Can I Overcome Betrayal?

Here's a tough question.  How can I keep my anger in check and ignore insults?  Not easy to do, but necessary.  And if you are guilty of betrayal are you capable of de...

What is Out of Bounds Anger?

Here's a tough one.  If you're the recipient of some ones anger, go and make amends to that person. God can give you the courage to do just that.  Are you willing to d...

What Happens When Anger Turns Inward?

Search your heart for honesty.  A few words that can change a bad situation into a positive opportunity.  Ask God for opportunities to honest about your feelings.  He ...

How Can I be Slow to Anger?

Anger is simply an instrument for revenge.  Being slow to anger prevents overreacting.  Instead, take the time to discover God's point of view.

How Do I Calm My Anger?

Anger is a snare that has the potential for wrecking a commitment to remain calm and in control.  Discover how you can control your anger.

Why is Accepting Correction, Necessary?

Criticism can diminish a person's character and self-worth.  If you're in the receiving end of criticism, that's not easy.  How well you respond will dictate the futur...

How Can I Practice What is Difficult?

Do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who mistreat you.  Yeah, not an easy thing to do.  It becomes easier when you understand WHY?

How Can I Avoid Being Critical of Another Person?

Criticism rarely, if ever, produces positive results.  The most natural response is to strike back.  Consider your words carefully.  Don't act out of anger or an attit...

What Does It Mean to Turn the Other Cheek?

Instead of revenge, consider kindness, mercy and forgiveness, just as God has forgiven you.  Not always easy to do, but essential if you want to be the person God has ...

How Can I Turn Revenge into Redemption?

Anger, resentment, hatred.  That's a barrier to loving God.  Instead it magnifies and decays the relationship with Him.  There is a better way.  Listen and learn.

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